Soooo I made a quick stop by MTO and found the most disturbing story about a female who hacked into her EX-boyfriend's Facebook account, and found ALL of these messages between him and some other DL dude….going at each other!!! I swear a tear came to my eye reading this because this is some LIVE buulllshyt!! You hear me??
I'm seriously not an advocate of checking dudes emails, and phones….BUT SOMETIMES YOU JUST GOTTA GATDAMN DO IT!!!
LOOK AT THIS SHYT HERE!!!
**click to enlarge..so you can really #getn2it**
I'm TIRED of you DL men putting women at risk!! This shyt is getting out of control daily and none of you mafuggkaz seem to care!! You guys saw in those messages that this chick has a child with ol boy, so that means they have UNPROTECTED SEX!!! #HELLLOOOO *smdh* AIDS is a muthafuggka and I'm NOT tryna catch it…even when I'm married or "playin married", and this DL guy is PLAYING with her life!! (that's not cute!!!)
I mean is every man GAY NOW?? Looks like it!!
You DL's need to let the woman decide if she even wants to get involved with your fuggkery UPFRONT–trust there is a large percentage of women who ARE open to it!!
Finding out like THIS is grounds for getting your azz killed!! #realtalk
I NEED THIS CHICK ON LINE 1 PLEASE….
YOU KNOW….I HAVE TO KNOW HOW SHE HANDLED THIS ONE!!!!!!
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OMG… I have the BIGGEST fear of my man being DL!! it really makes me SICK at the thought of my man laying down with another DUDE!!! WHY? if you're GAY… be fucking GAY and be fucking PROUD and fuck men PROUDLY!! Don't pretend like you're straight just because you're too PUSSY to tell ur PUSSY ass friends that you've been looking at their dicks when they weren't paying attention… HELL, they might surprise you and say "ME TOO" __I mean… EVERYONE will be happier in the long run if you just keep it funky and be real!! *gags at this dude*
OKKKK!!! I’M JUST LIKE….HOW ARE WE GONNA HANDLE THIS BECAUSE IT’S BECOMING MORE COMMON FOR MEN TO LIKE MEN……WHO ARE STRAIGHT!!!!…..SHOULD WE JUST LEARN TO ACCEPT THIS IN THE FUTURE?? *BLANK STARE*
girl STOP!!! I WILL NOT accept my man thinking about another man sexually!! We were talking about women staying with their men for the money even after they cheat… There's not enough money in the WORLD to keep me in a household with a man who's being poked by another man… UGH!!!
I wouldn't even be able to respect him as a MAN anymore… let alone, look in his face and actually BE with him… OH NO!!
Do what you do but put me D….I might wanna a piece of that action…HEY, Ya Neva Know!!
WTF!!! YIKES!!
Let's break this down into what's fair & understandable and what's not. We'll start with what's fair.
FAIR & UNDERSTANDABLE
*The women in question (and others who have read this story) being upset with the underhanded nature of the sexual exploits of the man in question
*The women in question having a right to know about her partner's sexual history so as to be able to maintain optimum physical and sexual health status; at the least, her right to know her partners full STI status on a regular basis.
*The women in question (and others) having the URGE to want to repost this information on a blog, website, or other public forum.
*The man in question wanting to keep the other side of his sexual ID a secret, due to the discrimination, prejudice, intolerance, fear, hatred, religious slander-mongering that comes with being a homosexual or bisexual male in post-modern American society. (Yes, it's a fair notion that many "DL" men act the way they do because of these aspects of how we react to such information)
NOT FAIR:
*The man in question being unfaithful to his girlfriend. NOT FAIR.
*The man in question hiding another aspect of his sexual identity from his other partners. This is unfair to both parties, as it is putting both parties' health at risk. NOT FAIR
*Both parties not specifically outlining the terms of their intimacy boundaries in their relationship (i.e. actually sitting down and asking questions such as, "Are you bi? Are we in an open relationship? Are you into group scenes, etc." NOT FAIR. If no limits were set, then no one can complain about the turn of events outside of the general notion that the man was 'wrong.'
*The women in question feeling the need to repost this information on a worldwide, well-read blog, thus defaming the man and also vilifying the woman. Until we as a society are able to openly embrace full sexual tolerance & social understanding, whatever goes on in a relationship between two people should stay between THOSE TWO PEOPLE, unless there is a domestic disturbance or health risk in question, at which point, the ONLY other members of society that should become involved are the proper medical professionals, authorities, and close family as necessary. Bottom line: this ain't no one's business but their own.
Lastly
*The man having to make a choice as far as his sexual preference. NOT FAIR. Contrary to popular belief and to the dismay of women everywhere, it is true: bisexual men DO exist, and nothing YOU can do or say will change how they feel as far as their desires are concerned. To bash and hate on the OPEN bisexual community is to run them up on false charges. If anything, they are doing society a favor by publicly stating they enjoy both men & women physically and lead a sexual lifestyle that involves both. So long as they are keeping tabs on their health and being honest with others, there is nothing short the normal socio-religious hate stew that should keep them from living a life free of condemnation.
Let's be clear: this guy should definitely get a knock on the head with a strong bag of books, then dragged to the clinic to be run through the STD gauntlet, at which point, if he has contracted anything and given it to the woman, there are laws in place to see that he is properly reprimanded. But this type of hate-blogging and saying that you hate men who even THINK about other men sexually just proves my point about how backwards and poorly educated we are about understanding each other as sexual and social beings.
I pray for you all and hope that everyone smartens up soon.
THANK YOU FOR YOUR LONG AZZ COMMENT…BUT I NEED TO CLEAR SOME THINGS UP WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU MADE A LOT OF JUDGMENTAL AND FALSE ACCUSATIONS TOWARDS ME AND THIS STORY!!
FIRST OF ALL…..MAYBE YOU NEED TO PURCHASE THE "MY BABY CAN READ" SET BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SAID ANYTHING….ANYWHERE ABOUT "HATING" ANYONE!! SO WTF ARE YOU GETTING THIS FROM?? THE WHOLE POINT IS THIS MAN WAS SELECTIVELY LYING BEHIND HIS GIRLFRIEND'S BACK…AND PUTTING HER AT RISK FOR DISEASE. IF A MAN DOESN'T WANT TO MAKE A DECISION ON HIS SEXUAL PREFERENCE THAT'S FINE…BUT HE NEEDS TO PRACTICE THE SAFEST SEX POSSIBLE…AND HE NEEDS TO BE HONEST ABOUT HIS CURRENT SEXUAL PRACTICES UPFRONT PERIOD!! AND LET HER DECIDE!! MEN NEED TO SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR OUTCOMES AND STOP BEING "A SCARY BISCH".
#2 OBVIOUSLY…..THE CHICK WHO HACKED THE FB ACCOUNT SENT SCREEN PRINTS TO MEDIATAKEOUT.COM SO, THEREFORE, NO ONE IS VILIFYING HER AT ALL…SHE EXPLOITED HERSELF…AND HER "RELATIONSHIP' BECAUSE SHE WAS HURT!! IF HE HAD BEEN CHEATING WITH A WOMAN….I'M SURE THE SAME THING WOULD HAVE HAPPENED AND HIS IDENTITY IS HIDDEN SO BASICALLY…FUGGK HIM!! WOMEN NEED TO KNOW THAT THIS SHYT IS REAL…AND NOT JUST A MADE FOR TV MOVIE OR A FUGGKIN BOOK!!
#3 BLOGGERS TRACKBACK PUBLIC INFO FROM BLOGS ALL DAY EVERYDAY SO YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO FUGGKIN DEAL WITH IT!! PUBLIC INFO MEANS EVERYBODY'S DAMN BUSINESS!! #THATISALL
#4 THE PROBLEM WITH YOU DL MEN IS THAT YOU ARE HIDING THE MOST IMPORTANT INFO A WOMAN COULD WANT TO KNOW ABOUT YOU….AND #NOSHADE THIS HAPPENS IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY THE MOST!! WHITE MEN SEEM TO BE MORE OPEN ABOUT THEIR SEXUALITY, AND THE BLACK COMMUNITY CONTINUES TO STAY IN THE DARK ABOUT THE TRUE SEXUAL NATURE OF BLACK MEN.
SERIOUSLY, IF I'M HAVING SEX WITH A MAN ON A REGULAR AND HAVE KIDS WITH HIM…WHY IN THE HELL WOULD I QUESTION HIS SEXUALITY?? HE WOULD HAVE TO SET MY GAYDAR OFF FOR THAT, AND THAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED WAYYYY BEFORE I HAD HIS CHILD!!
#5 SO BEFORE YOU TAKE THE HIGH ROAD WITH THAT POMPOUS "I PRAY EVERYONE SMARTENS UP" AZZ ATTITUDE…..MAYBE YOU NEED TO BE THE POSTER CHILD FOR THE DL COMMUNITY AND BECOME AN ADVOCATE TO HELP OUR COMMUNITY UNDERSTAND IT!! YOU'RE NO BETTER THAN SOMEONE WHO IS "HATE BLOGGING" BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU HAVE ALL OF THE ANSWERS, BUT ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS "PUT DOWN" AND ACCUSE!!
IN CLOSING: THE ONLY THING ANY THAT OF THE WOMEN WHO HAVE RESPONDED "HATES"…..IS A LYING ASS MAN!! AND BEING DL IS THE ULTIMATE LIE!!
YOU BETTER #GETN2IT!
1ST OFF I CANT EVEN READ ALL THIS #BULLSHIT AND 2ND OFF YOUR CLEARLY ON THE DL AND FIGHTING WITH UR SEXUALITY BECAUSE YOU HAVE OBVIOUSLY TURNED THIS WHOLE POST INTO THE PMUARRYMUSIC SHOW AND THAT MY FRIEND IS A #NOMAAMPAM SITUATION TO THE 1 MILLIONTH POWER, THIS IS BESTYLISTIK NOT PMUARRY.COM TAKE ALL THIS LITERAL JARGON AND SPEECH THAT YOU CLEARLY HAVE DOWN PACKED FOR WHEN YOUR SEXUALITY IS CALLED TO THE CARPET. NOW ON TO MY COMMENT ABOUT THE POST…*TAKES A DEEP BREATH AND PREPARES TO GO THE FUCK OFF* THIS MAN IN THE POST IS DEAD MOTHER FUCKING ASS WRONG FOR CHEATING ON HIS GIRLFRIEND WITH A MAN NOT ONLY IS CHEATING BAD BUT DOING IT WITH THE SAM SEX IS #WORSE HE IS LUCKY HIS ASS AINT A 1ST 48 CASE AT THE MOMENT AND TO YOU PMURRAY YEAH BISEXUAL MEN AND WOMEN ARE OUT THERE AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT BUT GIVE A BITCH A CHOICE, DAM HELL HIS ASS SHOULD HAVE BEEN LIKE SO BABY YOU WANNA SUCK A DICK TOGETHER TONIGHT *BLANK STARE* AND IF SHE SAID HELL YEAH THEN THEIR YOU HAVE IT, BUT IF YOU WAKE UP 3 WEEKS LATER IN THE HOSPITAL THEN IT CLEARLY WAS A BAD IDEA,
HELL IM A DL CONNOISSEUR I FUCKS WITH ALL TYPE OF NIGGAS DOPE BOYS *QUES @MUFFMOMMY -IM IN LOVE WITH A DOPE BOY IM IN LOVE WITH A DOPE* TO DOCTORS *PAGING DR. DL DR. DL TO THE WAITING AREA S.T.A.T, TO RAPPERS AND HELL YEA THEY ALL BE HAVING GIRL FRIENDS DO I CARE FUCK NO, BUT IS IT WRONG THAT THEY ARE FUCKING WITH ME UNBEKNOWN TO THEIR GIRLFRIENDS HELL YEAH BUT DOES MALIK FORD GIVE A FUCK *IN MY WHITNEY HOUSTON VOICE* HELL TO THE NAW. SO THE MORAL TO THIS STORY IS KEEP YA SHIT TIGHT LIKE DIDDY, RUSSELL SIMMONS, LUDACRIS, DR. DRE, LL COOLJ, KRS1, AND BRIAN MCKNIGHT BUT PLEASE BELIEVE SOMEONE KNOWS YOU FUCKING WITH GUYS, SO THINK ABOUT IT THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS DL CAUSE THE PERSON YOU FUCKING KNOWS YOU LIKE THE SAME SEX…DROPS ALL THE MOTHER FUCKING MICS, CROSSES, AND ANYTHING ELSE THAT IS NOT GLUED TO A STATIONARY FIXTURE!!!!!….
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I JUST SCREAMED SOOOOOOO GATDAMN LOUD IN MY HOUSE *CUES TREY SONGZ* I BET THE NEIGHBORS KNOW MY NAME….MY NAMMEE!!!!
YAZZZ YOU CAMMME FOR PMURRAYMUSIC LIKE BLACK HAWK DOOOWWWNN!!!! I'M DONE BLOGGIN FOR THE DAAAYY!!!!!!
YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS BLACK HAWK IS THE ONLY WAY TO COME FOR THE CLOSET QUEENS!!!!!!!
First off I agree COMPLETLEY with MsStylistik
and if you call yourself referring to ME about the "I HATE men who even think about other men sexually" comment…
MsStylistik is RIGHT again… lets hop on that 5 disc "My Baby CAN Read" set…
I said "I will not ACCEPT (MY) MAN <=== MY GOTDAMN MAN… thinking about another man sexually" and I WILL NOT!!! I don't give a fuck what any "OTHER" man does with his time, but when it comes to the penis I insert into ME… its MY business!!
I dont think anyone here has any issues with GAY men, BISEXUAL men, NECROPHILIAC men… whatever!! But I do have the RIGHT to know what my dick is doing and where the hell its "hanging"
U need to check ur emotions son…
I think u (p murray) need to calm down and re-read the blog, re-read the comments and re-direct ur anger to whomever is forcing you to hide ur HOMOSEXUALITY, because its obvious that THATS ur real problem!!
YESSSSS GIRL!!! YOU BETTER TELL IT!!!
RUB N BELLY TO BELLY..SKIN TO SKIN…FUCKING LIKE HELL BUT A NO DICK GOING IN……LOL! LET THAT MAN PUT THAT DICK IN HIS ASSS….LMAO!!
NO MAAM PAM!!!…LOL
lmao!! Why the hell is @MF213 clowning THIS damn bad over here on the blog though?! Girrrrrllll one of my best friends is a gay male and I'm not even gonna get into how many men wit girlfriends come after him smdh. I don't foresee the days when black men will be open and honest about their BISEXUAL status happening ANYTIME soon because blk ppl LLOOOVVEEEEE to pretend, all the while, reality is leaving our a$$ in the dust.
TRUST ME I CAN IMAGINE…LOL
GIRL AND IT'S SOOOO SAD!!! WHERE IS SPIKE LEE WITH THE "WAAAKKKKEEEE UPPPP"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Guess who's back?? My GUSBAND @MF213 Bitches!!
YOUR GUSBAND?? REALLY GIRL?? LOL
@msstylistik I'll own up to the fact that this is a bigger issue than all of us and we all have yet to address it. This isn't about me, or you, and I'm glad we are level-headed, strong-thinking people who can sort out bad situations like this so it doesn't come to this point. Having said that, I apologize if what I said upset you, because I'm not a woman who has gone through something as life-altering as this. I do feel sad for her that she had to find something like this out the hard way. I write strongly because it's how I like to write. I don't like to write from anger or just emotion; I'm simply stating the facts; granted, there may be a bias, but it's not tainting those facts. You have my promise that even if I have an opinion or feel a certain way about a topic, I'll do my best to see all sides of the story – in this case, his side, her side, and the truth. Alot of what was being reported and the comments were very one-sided, so all any reader had to go on was 1/3 of what was going on. And none of us will ever really know what happened to let it get to this point. Feel me?
@ebonistephae First, I could never insult a woman I didn't know, that would be uncivilized & beneath me as a man; if you felt offended, I am sorry for that. I couldn't agree with you more about wanting to know exactly what your boyfriend or husband is up to. I'm 100% for committed relationships, and I do not condone dishonesty, unfaithfulness, cheating, or any other behavior that would compromise that relationship, or anyone's health, as I've said. I like to prove my points by giving examples and such, but that would be another 23 paragraphs, LOL, so I won't bother you with all that.
@FashioneHaus I hate the fact that I'm in agreement with you about sexual openness, but unfortunately we all have done this to ourselves with how we view sexual behavior, so in this instance you have a VERY good point. I'm just hoping for the day when all of us can get past that 'pretending,' because that's when real relationships can be built, strengthened, and made into something long-lasting.
I'm really glad what I said sparked this kind of conversation, because that's how we as human beings get to finally really see ourselves for what we are. They always say the truth sets you free; what no one wants to add is that because knowledge = pain (always), most people would rather just stay imprisoned in their own ignorance (ignorance is bliss, etc.). But if we learn to be honest w/ourselves and each other, that pain & anger can really give way to tolerance and understanding. It's true, anger is part of any healing process, it's a natural human emotion, but don't ever let that anger blind you from the truth.
OK, I'm getting "TV Special" sappy here, LOL. Take care yall.
PS, to the other comments and insults – blatant negativity is pointless, that's why I tagged the women I wanted to reach out to; I knew they were feeling upset about what I had said & I didn't want what was said to get mixed up or seen as a personal attack, and why you were left out. Coming for my neck cause you thought it was cute to try me in a public forum is as late as your name-dropping & kiki-ing. I walked that 'carpet' you said I'd be called to a long time ago (you're late again), so I'm good to go. The kids will always live for honesty & real-talk, so real-talk? I enjoy reading about real Queens like Elizabeth & Catherine the Great; I have no use for failed attempts at being read by the silly fake ones.
That shit is fuckin terrible. There should be a law to make that shit illegal. Down Low Homosexuality has to be mad illegal in this country. Hell, can you imagine being in one of these 3rd world countries like Iraq? I saw 4 guys get hung for just being accused of being Gay. These fools aint got to worry about that shit in America. DL muthafuckas get no respect.